Winnings Through My Sufferings (page 117) One of my favorite says is "It's a good life if you don't weaken!"  Of course the work weaken can be translated also as suffering.  The hardest part of life is when we are going through our suffering days no matter what the reason behind it.  I discovered that I can win even though it appears I am losing as I go through whatever trial.  See, I had to understand to get my eyes off myself and focus on Jesus and others.